I use 20mm ball for my mills upto 6 litres, and 40mm balls for the jars above 6L in volume.
I don't think the volume of the jars has any real relivence on suitable media size, it's really down to jar diameter.
Firstly I need to say that I have not run trials with different media in different jars and compared efficiency with time. My reccomendations are based entirely on placing balls in jars and watching how they move as the jar is rotated, assuming the ideal system would be the largest balls that still tumble easily without getting too jammed up as they try to turn over.
This is what I reccomend
100mm Jar : 20mm balls (Inoxia 1.3L ball mill jars)
200mm Jar : 30mm balls (This is the OD of my 3 and 6 litre jars)
275mm Jar : 40mm balls (This is the OD of my 10, 15 and 20 litre jars)
I know a range would be more ideal information but I've only worked with those 3 diameters so I don't know where the cutoffs are, I'm sure you can extrapolate the data yourselves.
Also, if you are planning a new mill, don't underestimate the help that getting a sheet of paper and a compass:
Draw a large circle equal to the ID of your intended Jar
Set the compass to the size of your intended ball and draw lots of circles, making sure you don't overlapp previously drawn balls and you don't try to order it too much. I have used this method before when trying to visulise the jar and it really helps. Also good for tubes.