Top 5 things you would do or have the society do if someone had a magic wand, could fix all the problems / make them go away and we could all, miraculously, work together again. Sorry, sounds like I've lost it but currently cohesion needs to start somewhere. For my two-pence :
1. Liase with members / ELOs to help them gain their A+Ks
2. Produce a monthly magazine - both to communicate what the society is doing and as a drawcard for membership
3. Investigate alternative ways of expanding the options available within hobby experimental pyrotechnics - I mean looking to extend the 100g rule (contentious I know)
4. Provide a shop / supply of fuse, chemicals, building materials, books, tools etc. Perhaps take on a member to provide this.
5. Work on building the forum - assign people to generate posts and contents to garner discussion
Meetups are not on my list because at the moment there isn't the footfall to make it effectively work ( as was tried ) I'd do options 1 - 5 first.