I really didn't consider the use of an intrinsically safe motor and am quite sure a household fan motor is not. However, proper housekeeping methods should keep the hazard to a minimum by keep flammables away from the motor and keeping the BP tighly sealed in it's drum. Although I think I will investigate a replacement motor sooner than later.
I agree good housekeeping should minimise the risks, for instance I run my mill on a farm dug into a hole and turned on via a 40m extension lead so if it did go off there would be no problem other than a ruined mill.
I agree with your concern on glass media and am closely inspecting the glass balls after every batch milled for signs of deterioration. I will change at the first sign. I actually have stainless steel 1/2" balls on the way. Perhaps that will add to the media discussion as well; ceramic vs. lead vs. stainless vs. brass vs. glass
Lead would appear to be the media of choice, I believe stainless steel has been discussed on this forum before so it may be worth doing a bit of a search. For instance what type of stainless is it? ferritic stainless steels will still spark and I believe martensitic steels can also still spark with austenitic (316 etc) posing the least sparking risk